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The Uncanny and A Sense of Things

August 28, 2023/in dreams, intuition, metaphysical, nightmares, stories/by Paul DeBlassie III

 

Intuition is a sense of things, what Freud called the uncanny. A New York colleague said, “I always know it’s the uncanny at work when the hairs on the back of my head go up.” The uncanny is an unexpected and often irrational but meaningful happening. It gives us a sense of things.

In the story of The Unholy, I write, “The hairs on the back of Claire’s neck stood on end. She clenched her teeth in anticipation of something worse about to happen….. Involuntarily, Claire shook her head as though waking from a bad dream.” A sense of the uncanny alerted Claire to what lay ahead.

One night, after receiving a dinner invitation from someone I hadn’t seen in years, I had a nightmare of this person’s home. It stood along a deserted street, a chill going up my spine as I saw a gargoyle perched atop its roof. My instincts went on high alert, a warning.

Still, the house beckoned. The door to the old Victorian creaked open. Overriding the voice of my intuition, I stepped inside. Shadowy figures emerged from the walls. I had stumbled upon a nest of malevolent spirits. The air was rank, fear gripping tight.

A sliver of light appeared at the far end of the home. I sprinted toward the back screen door and broke into the light of day. Relief washed over me. I awakened in my bed, my heart pounding.

An uncanny dream, a nightmare, stopped me in my tracks. I did not accept the dinner invitation. The uncanny, as does a metaphysical story, opens the mind to unseen realms. It gives us a sense of unseen things and tells us all we need to know.

Live Deeply . . . Read Daily!

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Mirrors and Psychic Energy

August 22, 2023/in metaphysical, metaphysical horror, mystic, nightmares/by Paul DeBlassie III

Mirrors magnify psychic energy. I wrote about it in Goddess of the Wild Thing. The witch did black magic by gazing into a mirror: “Seconds, hours, or eons passed. Time did not matter in the world of witches and sordid magic. Sweet Mary continued to gaze into the bathroom mirror, its surface dripping with humidity. She pondered and plotted, scene after terrible scene supernaturally forming across the hazy glass.”

 

A person I knew was upset and asked if they could share a dream. I agreed, and she told me a nightmare. She entered a dimly lit room and gazed into an old mirror. Rage at someone who betrayed her filled the air. She began humming, focused malevolent energy into a mirror. It swirled with hatred.

 

The mirror shattered, shards falling to the floor. In each shard was her reflection. It was twisted and deformed. She had cast her spell and trapped her soul in the shattered fragments. I offered, “Your rage is black magic and binds your soul, the evil boomeranging back.” 

 

She took my words to heart, our talking its own mirror. I asked her what she saw as we talked. “It’s strange, but the shards are disintegrating. Now, I see that I hurt others with my hate. But it comes back at me! Best not to go there.”

 

Stories are mirrors that reflect the light and darkness in the human heart. I encourage folks to live deeply by reading daily. It’s an excellent way to look into a metaphysical mirror and take stock of yourself. Remember, stories trigger feelings and mirror what lies within. And it’s best to know what lies within, for psychic energies are both light and dark.  

Live Deeply . . . . Read Daily! 

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Horror, Transformation, and Your Worst Nightmare

April 3, 2021/in nightmares, reading, spirits, unconscious mind, visionary horror, Writing/by Paul DeBlassie III

Nightmares scare the hell out of us. Blues chase the blues away. Fright ushers us into realms we’d never enter if it weren’t for life pressures and the intensity of the moment. Reading metaphysical horror does this all for us in one grand fell swoop. It takes us into nightmares, lands us in the blues, and pressures us with irresistible intensity.

Doing psychotherapy has its own path into transformation, so does everyday life leaned into fully and deeply, as will metaphysical horror if given a chance. My novel, The Unholy, is a fright for readers to pick up. More than one commented that they took to a dark corner of a hidden-away closet, turned on their kindle, and read and read till they finished. They had to do it. They had to get to the take-you-by-surprise ending—just like nightmares.

Then comes Goddess of the Wild Thing as it hits the noir streets of downtown Aztlan del Sur (Albuquerque, New Mexico) running. It’s a supernatural thrill ride into the black magic world of love gone bad, its allure, and the dark side of all things supernatural and mystic. Oh, there’s a light side. And, it’s there in Goddess of the Wild Thing, but, as with all good things, it takes its sweet, sweet time about coming to the fore with the oracular mystery that love is a wild thing!

When I spun out Goddess of the Everything: A Blood-Curdling Tale of the Affection of One Mother for Her Son and Her Son’s Struggle for Truth, Freedom, and Love, readers say it is a “wild, crazy, edge-of-your-seat ride!” I remember how the story haunted my nightmares. Significant life stories are what your nightmares are about. They’re signaling something that needs your urgent attention. This story, the writing, and publishing of it needed mine. So, when nightmares jettison forward into your world of sleep and dreaming, take heed. Listen, learn, and you’ll be changed – transformed. (Hint: Goddess of Everything will touch off nightmares, it’s a trigger, some have said, so don’t go there if you can’t. But if you can, read on and delve deep into your dreams and nightmares and then forever change and transform you.

Okay, let’s wrap up this nightmare diddy. The good thing with nightmares is that they end. I’ll come clean; sometimes they don’t. When patients in therapy report repeated nightmares, I tell them, “Well, there’s something we’re not getting. So, let’s listen a little more, learn a little deeper, and see how the dreams go.” We always see what we need to see if we stay with it. Just like reading a story, we see and learn what we need to see and learn if we stay with it. So, read on, live on, dream on. And know that metaphysical horror and nasty nightmares always birth good change, transformation if we stay with it.

Happy dreams and fantastic nightmares to you, one and all!

~ Live Deeply . . . Read Daily

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Paul DeBlassie III, Ph.D., is a psychologist and award-winning writer living in his native New Mexico, crafting visionary thrillers energized with trickster mischief and natural magic.

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